This is a different kind of blind. This is the date when you are just casually hanging with a dude and suddenly someone swoops in, saying it’s a date. “If it’s just you two, it’s a date.”
I’m one of those girls that actually likes hanging out with guys. It is a good and horrible thing.
I suppose I’m going “old school” and insist that when there is indeed a date, the guy should man up and straight up say it’s a date. None of this “hanging out ” shit. No. Smh.
Honestly, this messing around, saying two people are dating when they’ve sincerely just hung out is.. belittling.
It’s a date or it’s not. You’re in a relationship or not… You’re dead or you’re not.
Don’t let yourself be caught up in this kind of blind date. You may seem old school or a label-er, but know what you’ve stepped into. Be blunt. Don’t feel as though your whole time of hanging out will turn into a date-trap.
For future reference, remember this:
“Discern the relationship.
Pursue with clarity.
Commit with sincerity.”
Wait for this guy. ^ Obviously ready for a date with you, and has brought beautiful roses to decorate your house so when you see the flowers you’ll think of him. Dorky, I know. But who isn’t a romantic in someway? 😉
P.S. The guy is Nick Bateman in the pic.